Last week was a no good, terrible very bad week. And it started over a month ago. We moved out of the Airbnb we’d been living in while our house was gutted and put back together, and planned to travel 2 and half hours to my parents for the weekend. Any transition like this … More A no good, terrible very bad week.
In 2017, Allyssa and I bought an old house in Franklinton. Over the last couple years, we’ve been trying to fix it up—and after a few small investments and the help of a lot of great people, we’ve made a lot of progress. Now, we’re looking to refinance and pay someone to finish the work. … More Home Improvement
I’m seeing more and more people talk about mental health. With friends struggling with anxiety and depression, a couple colleagues committing suicide, and marriages falling apart around me… we need to talk about mental health. And I’m seeing people talk about it online and in articles… but I feel most of these shorter posts end … More Let’s Talk About Mental Health
Recently I was going through some old journals as Allyssa and I de-clutter our house. I found something I wrote, that eventually ended up in a sermon. It got me thinking quite a bit, and so I wanted to share it with you all. It was a reflection on Acts 14:11-12 When the crowd saw … More Old Journal Musings
The day I became a pastor I was not prepared for the unspoken expectations of parishioners. I was a youth pastor at a church for five years before becoming their senior pastor for another three. Even though I knew the congregation, I figured it wise to talk to as many people as possible to get … More Pastoral Care in a Church Plant
Before Finn’s bedtime, we have a pretty regular routine. We brush his teeth. Sometimes he gets a bath. And then we read some books. Of course, he loves books, especially if we love the books. I’ve learned this about kids. They will love what you love. If you get really excited about something, the likelihood … More The Foot Book
Our church is known for our focus on local missions. It’s not the only thing we do, but it is something we are very passionate about. There’s no doubt that this is reflected in Allyssa and I’s leadership. But its helped us gather a community of other people passionate about serving the poor. Which means, … More It Takes a Village
I wasn’t raised poor or affluent. I was a middle-of-the-road, middle-class kid from a small town. The fact that this small town is named Hicksville is only a distraction from the fact that it’s actually a great place to raise middle-class kids. That does not say there wasn’t economic disparity. The poor in our community … More Vacation and Economics
I recently had a couple conversations with some old friends who I hardly ever see anymore. We talked (and argued) about life and ministry and politics and current events. The conversation lasted well into the night. At the end of the conversation, I began to realize something. The view these friends have of me is … More Why I’m Leaving Facebook
Allyssa and I are rather strange. But we don’t realize it until people point it out. A lot of what we do as pastors seems normal to us, but when others point it out (often as a compliment, sometimes as a complaint), we then realize that we’re not normal. We might take too much pride in … More Contribute vs. Critique
